Let’s be honest most women feel that they are at a disadvantage when dating men. Invariably dating is an enigma and we have no idea what we are doing. As much as we try to look like we know how to seduce men the reality is we are busting our butts to date with success.
Dating isn’t about getting a guy to like you, he should already like you – you are a Queen! Dating also isn’t about letting a man take the lead. You should take the reins and keep your cards close to your chest.
If you want to date a guy, you’re already attracted to him so all you need to do is assess if he is compatible with you. Below is a dating blue print to use to help you decipher if a guy is compatible with you.
Think about what questions you can use to
1 prove his trust
2 prove that he wants a relationship
3 prove that he wants kids (if you want kids)
4 prove that he is single
5 prove that he isn’t a mysoginyst
6 prove that he isn’t a criminal
7 prove that he encourages a woman to pursue her dreams and career
8 prove that he is goal orientated and wants to get places in his life
9 prove that he isn’t jealous
These are examples of some of the questions you need to ask but what you ask will depend largely on what you want from a guy. If you want a man who doesn’t have children then you will need to ask questions that get to the truth. Now, don’t take what a man says as gospel, you must constantly be testing his honesty and integrity. Every time you ask a question, make sure you follow that up with a similar question in a different context to get to the truth. We all put on a front when we date, and men will say nearly anything just to get in your pants as quickly as possible. That is why you must screen over several weeks and several dates (meaning more than 3) before you get physical with a guy.
Don’t be like most women who stop screening early because they hate dating and just want to be in a relationship. Men know women hate dating and they use that as ammunition. Be shrewd and date with your head not your heart.